Ian has always been vague about his orientation. I don’t have a gender preference and my friends know this. I think maybe it’s because I already feel like I have Ian. Personally, I just haven’t felt inclined.
Eventually I decided that it was time to stop being afraid of Ian and try to be friends with him.Ībout a year after I really started hanging out with Ian, there was a revelatory moment where I realized that I was Ian’s best friend. Ian and I ended up seeing each other a lot. I assumed he was out of my friend league because he was really handsome-not ripped, just genetically blessed in the facial department-and seemed really smart and cool, so nerdy me assumed that he was super popular.
Ian and I were in the same English class in high school. Reddit user ProbablyGay1 posted the following, and it is very, very cute. But sometimes it can be staring at you right in the face.Ī guy who thought he was straight is starting to figure that out, realizing his best friend might actually be his boyfriend.
It feels good, and everyone's consenting, be safe, and make the most of all the experiences this life has to offer, it's a short one.Sometimes when you’re looking for love, it can be in the place where you least expect it. The older I've gotten the more and more I find myself eschewing the limited, narrow, social constructions of attraction. If you're interested in understanding the experience, please understand that no more than my having sex with women made me straight, if you experiment with men, it isn't going to make you gay, just human. I also have known a guy or two, both emotionally and sexually attracted to women, who have their female partners stimulate their prostate, with fingers, with dildos, pegging. Some women I know have told me they like anal. So, regardless of preference of role or position, anal sex can be very satisfying for both partners. Surprisingly, there's a magic place up inside that when it gets hit, wowsers! Dude! Hit that spot and I can pop a nut like mad. My philosophy is that getting f***ed will help me be a better top. Being the good husband I am, I welcome the opportunity. My husband identifies as a bottom, yet once or twice a year he has the inclination to want to be inside of me. While it is even amazingly better when I'm emotionally connected to the guy, it still feels freaking amazing when I have a hookup. Oh my, what an amazing experience, again and again. I identify as a top, and I love putting my penis into men. I'm simply attracted emotionally and sexually to males. I am a gay man who experimented with females in my youth, mostly due to seeking to fit into familial and societal expectation, and thinking the "right vagina" would "fix" me.